Meddling in other peoples affairs

Q: The girl whom in ignorance i got sexually involved with as a child is getting married to one of my male cousins who is very chaste and pious and islamic in nature since childhood. (i proposed to this cousin for marriage but she gave no answer and then she got married to another guy but then divorced him).in the meantime i got engaged with a nice and kind girl too.but now after divorce she(my cousin)is getting married to this pious cousin of mine. How could she do this to him? She knows he is very very pious and islamic and still she agreed to marry him?should i hint to my this cousin that she's not well suited for him?i guess she is doing this to take revenge from me as this male cousin of mine stays just below my flat. Please pray for me as she is making my life hell since childhood. Please i want to be free of her attrocities on me.she is making me live in hell.please pray for me and guide me.

A: You should not be concerned who your cousin is getting married to, as you will not be questioned regarding her actions. However, you will certainly be accountable for the wrong intentions and feelings that you harbour in your heart for her. 

عن أبي هريرة قال : قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم من حسن إسلام المرء تركه مالا يعنيه رواه الترمذي

Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)